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To the Wife of a Porn Addict: Letting Go of Anger
I have had so many various emotions after discovering my husband was…
I have had so many various emotions after discovering my husband was addicted to pornography three years ago. I had times of sadness and depression that would last for days. I was often confused and…
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Myth: It’s My Fault My Husband Looks At Porn
Women often ask us, “What should I have done differently in my…
Women often ask us, “What should I have done differently in my marriage so my husband wasn’t drawn to pornography? What’s wrong with me that he likes this stuff?” In this video, Matt Fradd explains……
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Your Husband’s Porn Addiction: 4 Ways to Get out of the Pit of Depression
My husband and I told the world about how the utter darkness…
My husband and I told the world about how the utter darkness of porn addiction sent him plummeting all the way to the contemplation of suicide. We’ve both professed to feeling like we were drowning,…
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Intimacy is not spelled S-E-X
Intimacy is not spelled S-E-X—or at least not primarily. The sexual relationship…
Intimacy is not spelled S-E-X—or at least not primarily. The sexual relationship with our wives should be a by-product of the everyday intimacy in our lives. Intimacy given rightly, given freely, and given not for…
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His Porn Will Change You: Should I Hold Him Accountable?
Being the spouse of a reformed (or struggling) porn addict is more…
Being the spouse of a reformed (or struggling) porn addict is more complex emotionally than many of us realize at first. Even when your husband is trying to pursue purity and both of you are…
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Delight Your Marriage: Interview with Belah Rose
Episode 151 [powerpress] Pornography is terrible sexual education, causing both deep insecurities…
Episode 151 [powerpress] Pornography is terrible sexual education, causing both deep insecurities and impossible expectations. When couples find they just don’t “click” in the bedroom—often caused by these hidden insecurities and expectations—where can they go…
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A Letter to Porn-Loving Men: 3 Essential Ways to Help Your Wife Trust You Again
You’re probably thinking, “Is it ever possible to earn her trust again?”…
You’re probably thinking, “Is it ever possible to earn her trust again?” Especially after she said, “How can I ever trust you again?! ” Well, I’ll tell you it is possible. But—and it is a…
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So Does That Make Me an Adulterer?
“But I say unto you, that whosoever looketh on a woman to…
“But I say unto you, that whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.” – Matthew 5:28 For over 28 years I’ve heard the question from…
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Surviving the Worst Day of Your Life: Confessing Porn Use to Your Spouse
September 9, 2005 was the worst day of my life. Confronted by…
September 9, 2005 was the worst day of my life. Confronted by my church board leaders, I had to admit my addiction to porn and headed home to tell my wife and four children. I…
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Can God Heal This? An Answer from the Wife of a Porn User
If you have discovered that your husband views pornography, you are probably…
If you have discovered that your husband views pornography, you are probably deeply hurt. Most likely, you are crushed. If you’re like me, you feel hopeless, lost, and worthless. That’s how I felt three and…