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Porn and Your Husband: Your Questions Answered (Part 1 of 3)
Anger. Betrayal. Mistrust. Loneliness. Maybe this is the first time you’ve caught…
Anger. Betrayal. Mistrust. Loneliness. Maybe this is the first time you’ve caught him using pornography. Maybe you’ve caught him many times and have finally reached the breaking point. Maybe he’s even gone so far as…
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Porn In Your Dating Relationship: How to Find Healing Through Transparency
Episode 142 [powerpress] When you’re in a serious dating relationship or engaged,…
Episode 142 [powerpress] When you’re in a serious dating relationship or engaged, what should you do when you discover your boyfriend or fiancé watches porn habitually? While many relationship counselors advise transparency and honest conversation around…
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Porn Addiction Problems: Effects on Marriage (Infographic)
A survey taken among divorce lawyers found that 56% of divorce cases involve…
A survey taken among divorce lawyers found that 56% of divorce cases involve at least one party having an “obsessive interest in pornographic websites.” The more we know about the effects of pornography on the brain,…
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4 Kinds of Porn Users and 2 Ways Spouses Shouldn’t React
Every day on our blog, women post comments telling their stories and asking…
Every day on our blog, women post comments telling their stories and asking for help because their husbands use pornography. As I answer the comments, I’m noticing some common themes. I’d like to share what I’m…
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Yes, Using Porn Is Cheating. Here’s Why.
I’ve heard it said that there are men who don’t look at…
I’ve heard it said that there are men who don’t look at porn, and then there are men who are breathing. If recent surveys are any indication, porn use has become the norm among men, not…
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Marriage Restored: Reuniting with My Porn-Addict Husband after a 7-Year Separation
I grew up in an abusive, legalistic Christian home and “ran away”…
I grew up in an abusive, legalistic Christian home and “ran away” to college to escape my home life and all my problems. But I moved with me. I was still the insecure, frightened, manipulative, prideful,…
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Should You Date a Man Who Struggles with Porn?
Jessica met Brad through a young professionals group at her church and…
Jessica met Brad through a young professionals group at her church and had been going out with him for several weeks. One evening while having coffee with Brad, he confessed to her that he currently…
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The Myth of Self-Control
Each time I caught Craig engaging with pornography, I either said or…
Each time I caught Craig engaging with pornography, I either said or thought things like this: “Why can’t you exercise self-control?” “Why can’t you recognize this is harmful and hurtful and just not do it…
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Praying for My Porn Addict Husband: Serena’s Story
November 15, 2007, is a day that Serena Abdelaziz will never forget.…
November 15, 2007, is a day that Serena Abdelaziz will never forget. She had been living in a nightmare. Her husband Josh had sunken into pornography addiction, and his growing discontentment enticed him to look…
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Marriage and Porn Addiction: Is Your Husband “On Your Team”?
Last month, I wrote about the importance of “turning toward” the marriage…
Last month, I wrote about the importance of “turning toward” the marriage relationship in recovery from pornography addiction. “Turning toward” has, for us, become the foundation for our experience in long-term health and healing, and…