Have you ever felt alone? I mean, really alone? Like there’s no one in the world who can help you with the grief or trauma you’re facing? There are thousands of women who experience this on a daily basis. They are the forgotten half of the pornography epidemic. These are the wives of those men who have sought to overcome pornography, but haven’t been able. They’re also the girlfriends of those who don’t see pornography as an issue and refuse to do something about their habitual struggle or addiction. The harm done to women through the use of pornography is … Continue reading →
There were early indications that I had unrealistic expectations and was prone to disappointment and depression when things didn’t go according to plan. An early story took place at a railroad crossing. I don’t have conscious recollection since I was only two or three. But my parents insist I was standing in the backseat of the car (the days long before required car seats for babies) and enthralled with the chugging, speeding train going by, rumbling the pavement and flooding our ears with sound. I apparently had a look of fascinated ecstasy, a big smile on my face, and was … Continue reading →
Your journey to freedom from pornography most likely didn’t take only one conversation, one moment of healing, or one act of repentance. Instead, it’s been made up (or will be made up) of many rounds of discussion, many layers of healing, and a multitude of confessions because bad habits are hard to break. Satan loves to keep entangling us and entrapping us with sins with addictive properties. (First time confessing your porn addiction to your spouse? Read this article first.) Your spouse’s journey to healing will also take time, intention, and your willingness to talk with her or him as you … Continue reading →
So, you’ve reached the necessary place of maturity or desperation (or both) to recognize your need for your parents’ partnership in your fight for freedom from pornography. I hate that you find yourself in this place, but I’m so hopeful about your future, because you’re doing the right thing. The freedom you want is possible! But not alone. In fact, what you’re about to do is so stinking grown up! Do you understand that? Mature people struggle and even fail, but then they come forward of their own free will to confess their struggles and failures, so they can get … Continue reading →
Our Android Service Has Been Overhauled Over the last few months, we’ve kept you up to date on some major changes to our app on Android. First, we told you about how Google told us to stop using the Accessibility Feature, which at the time we were using to provide Accountability and Filtering. A few months after that, we invited you to help us test a fix. And a month ago, we told you we were testing a new way to provide app reporting and locking. All this hard work has paid off, and we’re pleased to announce that our … Continue reading →