Over the years, I must have asked God over a thousand times to set me free from lust and pornographic addiction. To no avail. I just couldn’t understand why I seemingly received no help or response from God after asking Him for something that should line up with His word. It made me question everything: What’s wrong with me? Doesn’t God care how hard I’m trying? Why won’t God help me? Has He abandoned me? Am I too dirty and rejected for God’s help? I knew these questions didn’t align with what I read about God in His word. I … Continue reading →
Some movies start with a serene setting, only to have the world collapse around the main character in the first two minutes. A wife discovering porn is a lot like that. Life seems normal, almost on autopilot. Then she picks up her husband’s iPad and, on a hunch, glances at his history. Her world explodes. She feels shock, betrayal, hurt, anger, and confusion–all with white hot intensity and all at the same time. Then her husband walks in. She explodes on him. Neither saw the bomb coming. Neither of them know what to do with the raging fire resulting from … Continue reading →
Conversations Are Key to Life Change Covenant Eyes was founded on the principle that when our online behavior is known and discussed with a person we trust, we often make choices of honor and integrity. A key to having the right Accountability discussions about the right topics is having accurate, easily understood Accountability Reports. As part of our commitment to providing the best Accountability experience possible, Covenant Eyes is releasing completely redesigned Accountability Reports starting today. The new design, developed with input and advice from thousands of members, has been built from the ground up to be: Clearer Less confusing … Continue reading →
Most people struggle to find effective methods for overcoming porn in their lives. These five steps have proven to be highly effective when implemented as designed. The greatest variable in this process is you. The process works if you work the process. The commitment you make to fully engage this process will make or break the outcome you’ll experience. You’ve got to truly desire to be free as you begin this. What I didn’t say is that you need to be fully confident you can make it. A true desire for freedom is a great beginning. The five steps are taken … Continue reading →
You’ve been lied to. But you’re in good company. In fact, we’ve all been lied to. We’ve been told that all men watch porn, and most of us have never researched whether that is true. Worse, we can use that unfounded statement as an excuse to justify our own behavior or to encourage others to do so. Here’s another example. As a young person, I was told that it takes seven years to digest swallowed gum, so I never swallowed it. However, science says the gum goes through the same process and takes the same amount of time to digest … Continue reading →