What should we do when a child chooses to walk a path not in line with sexual purity? What if we put into practice everything we learn from experts and books and a child still ignores us? Or maybe a child does follow our guidance when they are young, and…
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I Kept My Porn Struggle a Secret—Until My Wife Confessed First
“Everywhere”: temptation’s presence summed up in a single word. It is remarkable to me how humans thrive in our creative approaches to immorality. Before I was married and before I had ever heard of Covenant Eyes, I would find myself working creatively to hide what I prayed would remain hidden.…
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Is Masturbation a Sin?
Many Christians wonder whether masturbation is a sin. Can a habit so deeply ingrained in human nature be sinful? More than that, Christians have taught and believed differently on this issue at different times. However, I believe masturbation is a sin in most, if not all, cases. In this article,…
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What You Need to Know About Gaslighting
There I was, in the Food 4 Less parking lot, just sitting in my car. Bawling. I hadn’t known where else to go. I just knew I needed somewhere safe–somewhere my mind and heart could have space. I called my mom and relayed the most recent conversation with my husband.…
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10 Phrases You Should Never Say to Someone Experiencing Betrayal Trauma
Discovering the sexual betrayal of a spouse is one of the most traumatic experiences anyone can suffer. There are so few people with whom the wounded spouse can confide. Imagine this devastated individual mustering the courage to share the story with a close friend or family member only to receive…
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8 Relationship-Saving Principles You Can Start Using Tonight
I’ll be honest with you. I betrayed my wife. I lied to her almost every night for four straight years. I did a quick estimate and figured that I lied at least 1,000 times to her face in those four years. I know how to destroy trust in a relationship. …
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Betrayal Trauma
Reviewed by Dr. Alexandra Repke, Ph.D., CSAT, C-PD, CAIMHP and Dr. Eddie Capparucci, Ph.D., LPC, C-CSAS Key Points: What is Betrayal Trauma? The word “trauma” originates from ancient Greek, meaning “to wound,” and it can refer to the emotional or behavioral effects of deep distress caused by severe mental, emotional,…
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Willpower in the Bible: Why “Trying Harder” Fails (and What Actually Works)
The Cycle of “I Promise” It’s Sunday night or Tuesday afternoon. Maybe you just closed a browser tab you shouldn’t have opened. Either way, something rises up inside you. It’s a mix of shame, resolve, and genuine desperation, and you make the vow: “I’m done. This time is different. I…
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Transforming Lives with Attachment Theory: The Key to Overcoming Pornography Addiction
Adam Lane-Smith, a former licensed marriage and family therapist, brings decades of experience and expertise to the discussion. He explains attachment theory in practical terms, highlighting how our childhood experiences shape our ability to connect with others, fulfill our needs, and experience love and care in relationships. Learn about the…
