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5 Secrets to Walking in the Spirit

Last Updated: March 6, 2023

The following is adapted from Your Brain on Porn, a free ebook available from Covenant Eyes.


The Bible does not describe us merely as wayward, broken, or needing a moral boost but as those who are dead in sin (Ephesians 2:1). Dead men and women do not just need recovery; they need resurrection.

For the follower of Christ, the ultimate goal is not merely “quitting pornography” but is something far richer and more comprehensive. If merely modifying behavior was the most important thing, there are any number of psychological tips and tricks one can use. But for the Christian, as it should be for all people, the goal is not merely recovering from pornography, but being remade by God Himself into the image of the perfect Man, Jesus Christ.

This is the work of the Holy Spirit.

Just as sure as pornography stirs up lustful cravings in us, the Holy Spirit is a source of new, holy cravings. Galatians 5:17 says that we who have the Holy Spirit have the “desires of the Spirit.” God promises that when we “keep in step with the Spirit,” the lusts of the flesh that lead to sexual immorality, impurity, and sensuality will not have their way in us (5:16,25). We can become new men and women from the inside out.

What does it mean to keep in step with the Spirit of God—to walk in the Spirit?

Article at a Glance

1. We must walk in accountability where we can share our darkest secrets and be reminded of our highest calling. To walk in the Spirit, we must confess our sins to each other, pray for each other, and stir up one another to live according to our true identity.

2. We must internalize Scripture, the inspired words of the Spirit. To walk in the Spirit, we need to renovate our thoughts according to the truths He has revealed, rejecting the lies pornography has fed us.

3. We must walk in pure pleasure, taking great delight in holy and wholesome longings—finding pleasure in all that is honorable, pure, lovely, and excellent. To walk in the Spirit, we need to pursue pure pleasures with sincere gratitude until pornography loses its luster.

4. We must walk in our true identity, listening to the cry of the Spirit in our hearts, “Abba, Father,” which confirms our new identity. To walk in the Spirit, we need to learn to relate to God, from the depths of our soul, as dearly loved adopted sons and daughters, believing that we belong to God and that our ties to sin are broken forever.

5. We must stir up the hope the Spirit inspires in us—the hope of righteousness. To walk in the Spirit, we need to wait eagerly for this hope, putting faith in God’s promises that we are destined for an eternity of purity, and longing to see that purity spill over into our present lives.

1. Walk in Accountability

When Paul says we are to “walk in the Spirit,” he is writing to a church community, not just to random individuals reading his letter in their private corners. Keeping in step with the Spirit of God is a community activity—something we do together.

In other words, one of the ways we keep in step with the Spirit is by keeping in step with one another. We must live lifestyles of encouragement and accountability. The Spirit does not merely indwell individual Christians. He indwells the church corporately as His temple (2 Corinthians 6:16). Walking in the power of the Spirit means we must depend on how the Spirit empowers others to help us.

Nothing slays the power of sin like confession. James writes, “Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another that you may be healed” (James 5:16). In confessing our sins to God, we are promised forgiveness. In confessing sin to others, we are made whole.

Sin must be habitually exposed to the light of confession. This is called accountability: being honest with another trusted believer about our temptations, sins, and the state of our heart. Like Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden, after eating the forbidden fruit, our knee-jerk reaction is to hide—to hide from God and from one another. Accountability is the willingness to habitually and regularly allow others access to your heart, your motives, your secret desires, your dark thoughts, and, of course, your sinful actions.

Confession of sin is not the only goal of Christian accountability. In the face of each other’s weaknesses, we need to encourage one another to fight sin. The author of Hebrews says, “Let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near” (Hebrews 10:24-25).

Like the embers of a red-hot fire, we stir up the fire not by adding heat to it, but rather by exposing the glowing embers to the air, helping to bring out the energy that is already in the embers. If the Spirit of God is in us, He has already etched his law on our hearts (Jeremiah 31:33-34; Ezekiel 36:25-27). But He has also placed us in the family of the church, among trusted friends who are also filled with His Spirit, in order that we might stir up in each other what God has already put within us.

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2. Walk According to the Word

When Paul writes, “keep in step with the Spirit,” the word he uses is the same as that of an army marching in line, a platoon following its marching orders. Lest we think keeping in step with the Spirit is a purely mystical experience, Paul says it is very practical. Keeping in step with the Spirit means obeying His clearly revealed orders.

We cannot claim to keep in step with God’s Spirit if we ignore or disobey the writings He inspired: the Scriptures. Through the Bible, the Holy Spirit speaks clear words to the Church. As an expert in God’s law, Paul understood this. He knew all the writings of the prophets were “breathed out by God” (2 Timothy 3:16). No less than 32 times in Paul’s letters he uses the phrase “it is written,” pointing to the writings of the prophets who came before him. Paul also knew the Spirit was inspiring him and his fellow apostles (Ephesians 3:5). The Scriptures are a gift from the Spirit to us:

“For whatever was written in former days was written for our instruction,” Paul says, “that through endurance and through the encouragement of the Scriptures we might have hope” (Romans 15:4).

To keep in step with the Spirit we must know and obey the Book He inspired. We must explore the Bible and learn what God thinks. We must renew our minds with His thoughts.

Reverse Engineering Porn

Exploring the Bible, we can “reverse engineer” the bad training pornography has given us and replace it with God’s thoughts.

1. Porn promises gratification but only decreases our sexual satisfaction. But God is the creator of sexual satisfaction and has designed marriage for its enjoyment (Song of Solomon 4:9-16). For single men and women, it means pursuing wholesome, intentional relationships with each other (1 Thessalonians 4:4). For married men and women, this means renewing our minds towards our spouses and choosing to make them our standard of attractiveness. It means returning again and again to the enjoyment of sex in marriage (Proverbs 5:18-19; Song of Solomon 7:11-13).

2. Porn disconnects us from real relationships, training us to believe that the best sex is solo sex. But God has defined good sex as an expression of “oneness,” not emotional detachment (Genesis 2:24).

3. Porn lowers our view of women, training us to see each other as sexual commodities. But God created women in His image, and as such, women are worthy of great honor (Genesis 1:27; 1 Peter 3:7).

4. Porn desensitizes us to and eroticizes cruelty. But God has designed sex as an expression of affection, not aggression (Deuteronomy 22:25; Ephesians 5:28-30).

5. Porn hooks us deeply, leading to possible addiction and sexual bondage. But God redeems our warped sex drive so that sex is a holy act of love and giving, not selfishness and slavery (1 Corinthians 13:4-7; Galatians 5:22-23). Sex becomes our master when we believe the lie that porn tries to sell us: that sex is a “need.” If sex is a need, then we feel justified when we get mad at the world or at God for not giving us the sex or the kind of sex we so rightly deserve. But if sex is not a need, but rather a good desire, then we can set it alongside other good desires and go to the Word to understand its place.

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For married men and women, this means surrendering our sexual desires to the Lord in a spirit of giving, not taking, and regularly returning to our spouse to be intoxicated with love (Song of Solomon 1:4; Proverbs 5:18-20). For single men and women, this means surrendering our sexual desires to the Lord, practicing self-control, and using one’s undivided interests to serve the Lord (1 Corinthians 7:32-35).

Each of these ideas is only the beginning, but the more the mind engages with the Bible around these truths, the more our thoughts are renovated. Over time our minds will be rewired to see things the way God does. As we do this we are “sowing to the Spirit” and in time will reap a harvest of eternal life (Galatians 6:8).

3. Walk in Pure Pleasure

Paul specifically states that what trumps sinful longings are holy longings: “the desires of the Spirit are against the flesh” (Galatians 5:17). Paul says if we keep in step with the Spirit’s desires, we will not gratify the desires of the flesh.

The human spirit was never meant to be devoid of desire. If, in the battle against pornography, we only spend time trying to empty ourselves of the desire for it, we will inevitably fail or make ourselves miserable. Some desire will always try to fill the void.

It is noteworthy that the language Paul uses to talk about the Spirit’s “desires” is the same word used throughout the New Testament for “lust.” The Spirit “lusts,” craves, longs—and He shares those longings with us. This is what the old Scottish minister Thomas Chalmers called “the expulsive power of a new affection.” Laws, rules, and regulations can only tell us what is bad and why it is bad, but they do not change our desires for sinful things. These sinful longings can only be conquered by implanting new “affections”—new cravings—that counter our sinful cravings. This is what the Spirit does in us: He shares His own desires with us, changing us from the inside out.

Longing for the Good

The Holy Spirit longs for all things that God calls good. And lest we think this means we must constantly walk around in a holy fog and avoid physical pleasures, God calls us to embrace whatever is true, honorable, just, pure, lovely, commendable, excellent, and praiseworthy—wholesome pleasures become a means to practicing God’s presence (Philippians 4:8).

The world is full of holy pleasures for God’s people, and they can become windows of worship when they are infused with gratitude. “For everything created by God is good, and nothing is to be rejected if it is received with thanksgiving” (1 Timoty 4:4).

Paul writes to Titus, “To the pure, all things are pure” (Titus 1:15). In his book, Pure Pleasure, Gary Thomas explains this text:

In context, Paul is arguing against hyper-religionists trying to saddle Christians with arbitrary rules and prohibitions. These teachers wanted to enslave believers to the old belief that if a defiled person touches something (food, drink, or even another person), this something becomes defiled. Paul cleverly turns this around, saying if someone is pure, then whatever they touch becomes pure!

I’m arguing that we need to look at pleasure and the good gifts of this earth through the eyes of redemption. When our hearts are cleansed and transformed by God, the very things that used to cause us to stumble can now become friends of faith. Not all things, of course; anything specifically against the will and commands of God, regardless of what kind of pleasure it seems to offer, will always destroy our souls. But the good things of this earth, created by God to be received with thanksgiving and praise—things such as friendship, good food and fine drinks, laughter, sex, and family life—can be redeemed to season our life and faith in many positive ways. God can even give us the power to take what we formerly misused and transform it into an instrument of praise.

Neurologically speaking, porn has carved a pathway of pleasure in the mind, but we can avoid that rut if we begin to carve our new holy pathways in the brain. In time, as pleasure-creating dopamine is released again and again through these pure channels, new habits are created and old habits begin to lose their luster.

Over time we no longer look to porn as our release valve to entertain our idols, but rather we use healthy pleasures as means of delighting in God as the giver of every good and perfect gift.

4. Walk in Your True Identity

In the original language, “walk in the Spirit” carries the sense of, “walk as you have been walking in the Spirit.” How had the Galatians been walking in the Spirit already?

Earlier in the letter Paul writes about what the Spirit of Christ had been doing in the hearts of his readers:

But when the fullness of time had come, God sent forth his Son, born of woman, born under the law, to redeem those who were under the law, so that we might receive adoption as sons. And because you are sons, God has sent the Spirit of his Son into our hearts, crying, “Abba! Father!” So you are no longer a slave, but a son, and if a son, then an heir through God. (Galatians 4:4-7)

In other words, keeping in step with the Spirit means being able to pray—from our deepest heart—as adopted sons and daughters, not as spiritual orphans. Orphans obey in order to make themselves attractive prospects for adoption. Adopted children already know and believe they are loved. Adopted children obey because they are secure in the love they have from their parents, and that love has birthed in them a deep love of their own.

Knowing Who You Are

At first, relating to God as a dearly loved son or daughter may sound overly simplistic. When fighting the deteriorating effects of sin in our hearts we cry out for action steps, for methods that summon our willpower—not sentiments about love. But this is the very thing the gospel of Christ warns against.

Paul taught that religious regulations do not work. “If with Christ you died to the elemental spirits of the world, why, as if you were still alive in the world, do you submit to regulations—‘Do not handle, Do not taste, Do not touch’” (Colossians 2:20-21). Try-harder ethics are useless: “they are of no value in stopping the indulgence of the flesh” (2:23). Better internet filters and personal regulations might stop you from looking at porn for a time, but they will not transform a heart of lust.

Instead, Paul says real change is first about knowing who we already are. “You have died, and your life is hidden with Christ in God” (3:3). “You have been raised with Christ” (3:1). “You have put off the old self with its practices and have put on the new self” (3:9-10). Only those who first know this about themselves have the power to slay sinful sexual desires and habits (3:5).

“So you also must consider yourselves dead to sin and alive to God in Christ Jesus” (Romans 6:11). Paul does not say we are dying to sin (a process). He does not say we should die to sin (a command). He said that because we are intimately united with the risen Christ and because His resurrected life flows in our veins, we should consider ourselves already dead to sin.

Taking Stock of Your Identity

The word translated “consider” is an accounting term; it means to add something up—to take stock of something. When a child adds up how much money is in her piggy bank, at the end of the counting she doesn’t have any more or less in the bank than when she began. The only thing that has changed is her knowledge about the value of what is there. This is what Paul means. You already believe these basic gospel truths—Christ died to sin’s power, He rose from the dead, and the Spirit of the risen Christ lives within you—so now reckon it to be true; reconsider it; meditate on it; get the idea of your new identity deep into your soul.

As much as porn feels alive to you, if you are in Christ, you are dead to porn. The Spirit of the living God is in you.

Feeling God’s Kindness

As far as God is concerned, you are already His. God’s love for you cannot be overstated. The God and Father of our Lord Jesus loves you with an endless love, and you have done nothing to merit it or deserve it. He loves you despite all your unlovability, despite your lingering sinful desires. Though in your sin you are undeserving and undesirable, He loves you when your mind disavows it, your heart dodges it, and your soul dismisses it. He loves you right now as you are, not as you think you should be.

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This, the New Testament says, is the key to unlocking God’s power for change. It is not God’s wrath that affects deep repentance in us, but rather, God’s kindness (Romans 2:4). Being filled with all of God’s fullness happens not by knowing God’s power but by comprehending the breadth and length and height and depth of His love—a love that “surpasses knowledge” (Ephesians 3:19).

There is an unfathomable difference between relating to God as an orphan and relating to God as a son, and this is the first critical step of walking in the Spirit. God is not holding back His love until we get our act together. He wants us to relate to Him as one dearly loved—so much so that Christ’s Spirit whispers His prayer in our hearts, “Abba, Father.” He loves His true children now in the midst of their unworthiness, and in time His love transforms our desires.

5. Walk in Hope

In the same letter to the Galatians, Paul writes, “For through the Spirit, by faith, we ourselves eagerly wait for the hope of righteousness” (Galatians 5:5). Keeping in step with the Spirit and having hope are intimately connected; the Spirit kindles in us a fresh hope for the things God has promised.

Paul declared a gospel of hope—of anticipation and expectation—which he calls the “hope of righteousness” (Galatians 5:5). Our great hope is that one day Christ will judge the world and make all things right again (Acts 17:31). He will destroy sin and death forever. He will recreate the world anew, and we will be just like Him (1 Corinthians 15:51-55).

God also promises that we will see foretastes of this “hope of righteousness” in the present age. Paul writes that as citizens of the kingdom of God, our lives should be filled with “righteousness and peace and joy in the Holy Spirit” (Romans 14:17).

Becoming Like Jesus

Though we are no longer under sin’s tyrannical power, sin is still present in our lives. Our body “is dead because of sin” (Romans 8:10). Porn, for many, will always carry some appeal. But we are promised God’s Spirit will “give life to your mortal body through His Spirit who dwells in you” (8:11), and by His grace, we can present the members of our bodies to God “as instruments of righteousness” (6:13).

This is our astounding hope: that fallen, porn-loving sinners like us will become like the holy Son of God.

For Paul, faith in this gospel hope does not merely mean we agree that these grand promises are real but that we give ourselves wholly to them—that we center our lives on them. Far from being a passive thing, faith is active. It engages the mind and the heart. As the author of Hebrews says, faith is the assurance and essence of things hoped for (Hebrews 11:1): it is the delightful conviction that the things we hope for are real.

Walking in the Spirit means we stir up this hope in us, or as Paul says, we “eagerly wait” for it (Galatians 5:5). We all suffer from the distractions of the world and sin. It is for this reason the apostle Peter similarly urges us: “set your hope fully on the grace that will be brought to you at the revelation of Jesus Christ” (1 Peter 1:13, italics added).

Feeding on the Promises

Practically speaking, this means just as we have fed our minds on pornography, we should now feed our minds on God’s hope-filled promises. Just as we have spent hours engrossed in sexual media, we should spend hours filling our imaginations with God’s vision for our lives and our eternity. We must, as Paul says, set our minds on the things of the Spirit (Romans 8:5) and on the glories of our inheritance as God’s children (8:17).

When it comes to saying no to lust and pornography, there are tailor-made promises in Scriptures that hold blessings of having a sexually pure mind and body.

  • If you are sexually pure, you will be living in the will of God for your life (1 Thessalonians 4:3).
  • If you fill your mind with that which is honorable, just, pure, lovely, commendable, excellent, and praiseworthy, then God’s peaceful presence will be with you (Philippians 4:8-9).
  • If you are not enslaved to your lusts, you will be free to serve others in love (Galatians 5:13).
  • If you are sexually pure, your life will be fruitful, and that fruit will be full of goodness and truth (Ephesians 5:8-9).
  • If you are sexually pure, your mind will no longer be foggy, your heart will be teachable, and you will be filled with the very life of God
    (Ephesians 4:17-19).
  • If you are sexually pure, your heart will not be enslaved to the worship of sex, which means you can wholeheartedly devote yourself to the true and living God (1 Kings 11:4).
  • If you are sexually pure, you will be more prepared to be a great lover and to enjoy sexual intimacy with your spouse or future spouse
    (Proverbs 5:18-19).
  • If you are sexually pure, you will keep your marriage bed undefiled (Hebrews 13:4).
  • If you are sexually pure, you will no longer waste time but instead make the most of it (Ephesians 5:16).
  • If you are sexually pure, you will be an honorable person (1 Thessalonians 4:4).
  • If you are a sexually pure person, you will not be enslaved to your passions (1 Corinthians 6:12).

This is God’s vision for your life: aligned with His will; surrounded by His peaceful presence; mastering your desires, not being a slave to them; full of goodness; full of life; full of honor; full of worship; tender-hearted and clear-minded; making the most of your days. When pornography assaults your senses or when those lustful flashbacks fill your mind, let this vision, and the promises attached to them, be the fuel you use to reject the world’s temptations.

Walking in hope is a mentality shift. Instead of walking around with the belief that sin is inevitable and thereby unconquerable, we live with the expectation that sin is defeated and holiness is inevitable.

Keeping in Step With the Spirit

Walking in the Spirit is a lifetime journey, but as we keep in step with Him, we are promised that the desires of the flesh will not overwhelm us. We can finally be free.

Such a vision of the Christian life might seem too high up and too far away for us, especially if we’ve lived for a long time in the shame of our darkest sexual obsessions. Daring to believe that God is as good as He says He is takes faith in the face of our deepest struggles.

Benedictine monk Sebastian Moore says whenever our faith begins to buckle and we doubt the ugliness of our sin or the vastness of God’s love, we need only to meditate on the cross. In our relentlessly self-absorbed lives, at times we gloss over our sin, we rationalize it, we minimize it. Other times we feel the crushing weight of it and believe nothing is strong enough to change us. But at the Cross, we see the stripes the Son of God bore for us—convincing us that our sin is serious. There we see the compassionate face of One willing to die for His enemies—convincing us that our sin is never too great for God’s grace.

And while standing at the foot of the Cross, when all the evil in our shabby hearts tries to hold its own against God, He answers with the thunder of resurrection.

  1. Andrew

    Thank you so much for this article. It has been a blessing. A real eye opener

  2. Dan

    So, if we swing from pornography (or any ‘idol’ of any ‘sin’) to this quasi spiritual meditative pragmatism, the logical question becomes how do we keep the next ‘pure’ thing from becoming an idol? If I meditate on something that is good to avoid meditating on something that is not good, isn’t it possible that good which I am now meditating on can become not good? Can’t anything become a ‘god’, an ‘idol?’ And I notice that the author did not mention what these ‘pure’, ‘lovely’, ‘honorable’, ‘noble’, etc things are? When I read through this my first impression was the writer/article was suggesting this very thing without realizing it! You seem to be saying the way out is to try harder at not trying harder! Maybe I missed something there, but that’s how it came across. That and you sound like John Eldredge in The Sacred Romance and Wild at Heart. Sounds great in print but damnably hard to live out.

    • Paul

      If the switch is from porn to worshipping God, as I’ve read the article, then you’re not setting up a new idol, but putting yourself in they only proper position for a human. Instead of saying “no” to porn and believing the lie that we’re unlovable because of our sin, say yes to authentic love and have a confident understanding that you’re loved right now. Another way to express to you is that you can’t say no to something without saying yes to something else. No to porn, yes to accepting God’s pre-existing love for you. That includes enjoying the world. Obviously, if leave porn and simply fill yourself with another aspect of creation, then you are idol-jumping. The further in the pit of sin you currently live, the more difficult it will be.

    • Derek

      C.S. Lewis said that if you replace things that come first with things that come second you will lose out in the joy in both of them. My take from this article is to keep God first! When he is in his proper place and you look solely to him, you will also find joy and pleasure in the “good things” he has given us on earth.

  3. Joshua

    GOD bless you abundantly for this.

  4. David

    I think the Lord is leading me to a shift in my prayers. Instead of constantly approaching the Lord in prayer as an unworthy wretch, in all humility and as much faith as I can muster, I’m going to thank Him that I am His adopted son and heir through grace. He is my loving heavenly Father. Thank you Jesus!

  5. Jr

    Thank you for this article. Jesus is my everything.

    • Greg

      With a man who has been n porn addiction for decades I’m going to tell you it is the hardest thing that will go through letting this stuff go! You don’t realize how intense this stuff gets trapped in the brain and in my opinion just as bad or worse than drugs! Depending on what you have been enthroned in the deep dark places in the mind where you let no one in has to come to light to be transformed! Your mind will be foggy, I’ve experienced terrible panic attacks to the point of vertigo and even went to the doctor bc I thought something was wrong with me medically! Accountability is key! You cannot do this alone, I have tried more times than I can count and I tell you I found it impossible! Tell someone tell everyone get it out there! But there will be hard withdrawals symptoms that you don’t want to deal with but know this is necessary for the healing process! God is good and if He didn’t live us so much He would let us keep going without conviction! You have to be determined to get help! Get free and deal with the underlying issues! It going to take time but it’s worth getting your mind and emotions back to truly love and worship Jesus!

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