Your Brain on Porn

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Watching just 5 hours of porn has been proven to significantly change people's sexual beliefs and attitudes. Find out 5 distinct ways that porn warps your brain, as well as 5 biblical ways to renew your mind and find freedom.

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  1. I have pointed a young man in our youth group to your website. He is thankful for it. I am thankful that I have found your group at the time that he needed it. I have a question for you. I help in youth and I know that you are working with youth as well. We currently have a couple over our youth group that does not stress the importance of how you carry yourself or modesty. I have a problem with this and my son can not even look at the “youth pastor’s” wife when she is speaking. She dresses immodest and doesn’t even mind turning around and shaking her bottom in front of the youth. How do I speak to this woman about what she is doing. She likes attention, but I think that it is creating unhealthy thoughts in our young men. She can get attention in a better way. I know that this is a hard question, but with no other adults helping in the room I can not speak to someone at my church.

    Thank you and God bless,
    Gina

    • Hi Gina,

      That’s a great question. If it were me having the conversation, I would start out by simply striking up a conversation about the subject of modest with her. Find our where she’s coming from. “I was reading in 2 Timothy 2 about what Paul says about the importance of modesty, and it really struck me how much this young generation needs to hear this message. What do you think about the importance of modesty?” Then ask her specifics. What do you think modesty is all about? What would you consider immodest? Is modesty important today? Why is it important? Should a woman do what she can to guard the eyes of men?

      This may get the ball rolling. This might give you more insight into her heart and may provide a bridge to a more personal conversation.

      I would also recommend you read some of our posts on modesty and learn a little more about the subject from a biblical and cultural perspective.
      1. “One Man’s Take on Modesty” (a biblical understanding of the subject)
      2. You might like our guests posts by Rachel Lee Carter, a Christian who works in the modeling industry: “A Model Uncovers the Truth about Modesty,” and “5 Ways to Transform an Immodest Wardrobe.”
      3. “What do Christian guys think about modesty?” (a survey among young men about modesty)
      4. “Straight Talk on Bikinis” (by Alyssa Shull)
      5. “Teaching Girls About the ‘Heart’ of Modesty” (podcast series)
      6. “Dressing with Dignity” (by Leslie Ludy)

      Hope this gives you a place to start, Gina.

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