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Have Porn Addiction, Will Travel
We have a closet that perpetually needs to be cleaned out and…
We have a closet that perpetually needs to be cleaned out and organized. It seems to attract junk on a daily basis. It’s also the holding spot for all things craft, which means it receives…
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Toxic Shame Has No Place in Marriage Restoration
In this article I will use female pronouns for the betrayed spouse…
In this article I will use female pronouns for the betrayed spouse and male pronouns for the addict, because that is the focus of my work. Also, parts of this article focus on unique ways…
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Three Cheers for Real Sex!
How many movies have you seen that portray a couple who’s been…
How many movies have you seen that portray a couple who’s been married for thirty years having sex? I am sure a few exist, but when you think generally about who’s having sex on the…
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Sex Isn’t the Solution to Your Husband’s Porn Problem
In the first few moments after I found my husband Craig’s digital…
In the first few moments after I found my husband Craig’s digital footprints that led me to his favorite porn sites, all I could see, feel, and speak revolved around rage. I was embarrassed (because…
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8 Relationship-Saving Principles You Can Start Using Tonight
I’ll be honest with you. I betrayed my wife. I lied to…
I’ll be honest with you. I betrayed my wife. I lied to her almost every night for four straight years. I did a quick estimate and figured that I lied at least 1,000 times to…
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4 Methods That Won’t Help Your Spouse Overcome Porn
It took my husband about ten years to finally be fully free…
It took my husband about ten years to finally be fully free from the grips of porn addiction. As such, I found plenty of methods and tactics that did nothing to help and did much…
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10 Ways to Help Your Spouse Heal after Sexual Betrayal
If you are the one who has wounded your spouse with your…
If you are the one who has wounded your spouse with your sexual acting out and you’ve read beyond the title of this article, I’ll assume you have at least some level of interest in…
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5 Ways Our Marriage Improved Without Porn
Marriage and porn. There are so many ways pornography can infiltrate. In…
Marriage and porn. There are so many ways pornography can infiltrate. In our case, my husband, Craig, brought it in. The addiction started in his teens. It was his own personal escape from the reality…