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Finding Healing Through the Betrayal Trauma Model

This article is written from the perspective of men struggling sexually and…

This article is written from the perspective of men struggling sexually and women in the Betrayal Trauma position. This can occur in both directions where the wife struggles and her husband is experiencing Betrayal Trauma. …

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3 Ways Porn Affects Your Sex Life

I have four kids. A daughter and three boys. If you’re a…

I have four kids. A daughter and three boys. If you’re a parent, I’m sure you’ve said things that you never thought you’d have to say as a grown, mature adult. Let me give you…

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God Turns Our Darkness Into Light, Even During a Pandemic.

Note from the author: When I first wrote this post, I was…

Note from the author: When I first wrote this post, I was not thinking about Covenant Eyes. I was simply journaling my feelings. My paralyzed feeling wasn’t about my husband’s addiction, but my frustration and…

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6 Things to Consider Before Becoming Your Spouse’s Ally

“Ally” comes from the Latin word alligare, meaning “to bind to.” We…

“Ally” comes from the Latin word alligare, meaning “to bind to.” We may be familiar with the term in the context of nations who are allies. They make a commitment to act together and protect…

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10 Essential Questions to Ask Your Significant Other BEFORE You Get Engaged

When it comes time to move your relationship from dating to engagement,…

When it comes time to move your relationship from dating to engagement, you’re probably going to wonder about his porn use. He may be a wonderful person. He may love Jesus to distraction. He may…

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Porn in Marriage: Its Harmful Effects on Relationships (and How to Heal)

If you’re reading this, your marriage has probably been impacted in some…

If you’re reading this, your marriage has probably been impacted in some way by porn use or you know a marriage that has. And even though there are many voices telling us that pornography and…

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How a Dream About Sex Changed My Marriage

As a newly married couple, my husband and I were naturally active…

As a newly married couple, my husband and I were naturally active in the bedroom. So, you can imagine my surprise when four months later I found out he was struggling with masturbation. I was…

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4 Tips for Your Mental Health While Your Spouse Quits Porn

The fact that your spouse has committed to kicking his/her porn habit…

The fact that your spouse has committed to kicking his/her porn habit is huge. Even admitting that porn is a problem is a big deal—one can’t attempt to heal from a sickness s/he won’t acknowledge…

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