9 thoughts on “To Wear or Not to Wear: The Bikini Debate

  1. Interesting. I am now a 52 year old woman. I have been covering all of my body and hair in public, except my face and hands, since I was 23 years old. I have never been molested, mugged, nor am I mocked. I feel very respected by people here in Philadelphia, where a lot of us women cover this way in public. At home, even with my children, I do not wear shorts, but wear long dresses with short sleeves. Even if I go swimming, i just swim with my clothes on. It is no problem and prevents a lot of problems!

    • As a young woman committed to saving myself for marriage, I believe that it is unfair to my future husband to show off my body to every and any man on the beach. For this reason, I personaly choose not to wear bikinis.

  2. Are Bikinis immodest. ABSOLUTELY! They are as close to NUDE as you can get; not the kind of message for we men, young or old.

  3. This is probably the best argument I have heard for Modesty and against bikinis etc. Men are the ones who are being called out for not being able to control ourselves, women are offended that a man is staring at their exposed body parts but all of those exposed body parts can be quite distracting even for men that don’t have ill intentions. And while I don’t place this blame on women, I think its a societal problem.

    Look how Swimsuit Editions are promoted and is it no wonder that Men will oogle even more when they see the real thing. As a recovering addict I often avoid the swimming pool in my apartment complex due to all of the women in bikinis.

  4. hi, i have an issue with lust, and bikinis are very iimmodest. i was at the beach last week, and there are soooooooooooooo many boobs there that are out there… there are girls that are showing themselves even before puberty, and their mothers are teaching them that its ok to show themselves to others. its wrong for a man to expose themselves, but women do it, its ok…

  5. Yes contact me. I have been trying to come up with a cross between some sexy flattering and something from the early 50’s when you could have something nice to wear to the pool or lake but it didnt exactly have your bottom hanging out or your boobs busting out of the tiny cups that don’t even hold them in place. I was in fashion for a long time and then one thing I never wanted to do was put on a bikini because I thought they were always too revealing. There is a way to be modest and sexy at the same time. Lets see if we can create something together. Thank you, I’m Elizabeth by the way. Nice to meet you Ms. Rey. Thank you for your time

    • Revealing and sexy are two VERY different concepts. The most sexy outfits are flattering, but leave something to the imagination. Modest is hottest!

  6. Yes, bikinis are very immodest, but not only bikinis. There seems to be no work standard in clothing. I have been in department stores at the check out counters, standing next to a young man when the clerk bent over and her very immodest top let all who wanted to, see all the way to China. Also, I have been in “family” restaurants such as Ruby Tuesdays and the waitresses were wearing tops that showed more than I ever wanted to see especially at dinnertime. I was mortified for my husband and grandsons. Bring back modesty in all forms please! Our bodies are the temple of the Holy Spirit.

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