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6 Ways That Watching Porn Affects Relationships
Studies have shown that as much as 70% of men and upwards…
Studies have shown that as much as 70% of men and upwards of 30% of women view porn regularly.1 Furthermore, each successive generation seems to grow more tolerant and accepting of porn. Now, most people…
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The Best Accountability Tools for Christians
Here’s an overview of some of the best accountability tools for Christians,…
Here’s an overview of some of the best accountability tools for Christians, based solidly on biblical teaching, with practical suggestions for how to use them. Do we need accountability tools? At Covenant Eyes, we believe…
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Why James 5 Is More Than a Proof-Text for Accountability
At Covenant Eyes, we look to James 5:16 as one of the…
At Covenant Eyes, we look to James 5:16 as one of the key biblical passages about accountability. Here it is: “Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, so that you…
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Beyond “How Are You?”—Sharper Questions to Ask Your Ally
When discussing an addiction or struggle with pornography and masturbation, you will…
When discussing an addiction or struggle with pornography and masturbation, you will be hard-pressed to find a “solution” that doesn’t include getting an accountability partner. With any addiction, having an external person as a mentor…
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Careful Burden-Bearing: Instructions for Allies
Being an ally means stepping into the messiness of someone’s life. It…
Being an ally means stepping into the messiness of someone’s life. It means speaking the truth in love. It means just being there, loving them, and caring for them. You’re not the savior. You can’t…
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7 Things Female Porn Users Wish Their Pastors Understood
Hi. My name is Lisa, and I have a porn problem. Ironically,…
Hi. My name is Lisa, and I have a porn problem. Ironically, I’m probably the last person you’d think would have one. I’m a woman. I’m active at church. I’m single and still “saving myself…
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Why People Watch Porn: 7 Reasons It’s Appealing
Why do people watch porn? Does it seem obvious? Um, hello? It’s…
Why do people watch porn? Does it seem obvious? Um, hello? It’s porn. But if you stop and think about it, sex is normally something you do, so why would you want to watch someone…
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How Long Does It Take To Recover From Porn Addiction?
If you, a friend, spouse, or loved one is trying overcome porn,…
If you, a friend, spouse, or loved one is trying overcome porn, you’ve probably wondered how long it takes to recover from porn addiction. Is there a normal, predictable amount of time that needs to pass…