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A Letter to Porn-Loving Men: 3 Essential Ways to Help Your Wife Trust You Again
You’re probably thinking, “Is it ever possible to earn her trust again?”…
You’re probably thinking, “Is it ever possible to earn her trust again?” Especially after she said, “How can I ever trust you again?! ” Well, I’ll tell you it is possible. But—and it is a…
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Surviving the Worst Day of Your Life: Confessing Porn Use to Your Spouse
September 9, 2005 was the worst day of my life. Confronted by…
September 9, 2005 was the worst day of my life. Confronted by my church board leaders, I had to admit my addiction to porn and headed home to tell my wife and four children. I…
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Can God Heal This? An Answer from the Wife of a Porn User
If you have discovered that your husband views pornography, you are probably…
If you have discovered that your husband views pornography, you are probably deeply hurt. Most likely, you are crushed. If you’re like me, you feel hopeless, lost, and worthless. That’s how I felt three and…
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FAQ: What should I tell my kids about my husband’s porn problem?
Josh had been losing a battle against pornography and adultery for years when…
Josh had been losing a battle against pornography and adultery for years when he decided he wanted to end his marriage. He had met someone new and wanted to move out, leaving his wife, Serena, devastated…
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Porn and Your Husband: Your Questions Answered (Part 3 of 3)
Episode 146 [powerpress] Over the last two weeks we’ve been addressing some…
Episode 146 [powerpress] Over the last two weeks we’ve been addressing some of the most frequently asked questions women have when it comes to their husbands using porn. Christian counselor Kay Bruner has been addressing…
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Hope During Your Husband’s Porn Addiction: 3 Critical Reminders
The waves were rough that day. I had my little daughter standing…
The waves were rough that day. I had my little daughter standing next to me in the calf-deep water. Grannie was sitting in front of me, closer to the shore. We chatted. We laughed. And…
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Porn Addiction Problems: Effects on Marriage (Infographic)
A survey taken among divorce lawyers found that 56% of divorce cases involve…
A survey taken among divorce lawyers found that 56% of divorce cases involve at least one party having an “obsessive interest in pornographic websites.” The more we know about the effects of pornography on the brain,…
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The Myth of Self-Control
Each time I caught Craig engaging with pornography, I either said or…
Each time I caught Craig engaging with pornography, I either said or thought things like this: “Why can’t you exercise self-control?” “Why can’t you recognize this is harmful and hurtful and just not do it…
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Marriage and Porn Addiction: Is Your Husband “On Your Team”?
Last month, I wrote about the importance of “turning toward” the marriage…
Last month, I wrote about the importance of “turning toward” the marriage relationship in recovery from pornography addiction. “Turning toward” has, for us, become the foundation for our experience in long-term health and healing, and…
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Why Being the Porn Police Doesn’t Work
You could say we rushed into it, that we didn’t take enough…
You could say we rushed into it, that we didn’t take enough time to really get to know each other, and that if we had, perhaps I would have found out about the porn problem…