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8 Relationship-Saving Principles You Can Start Using Tonight

I’ll be honest with you. I betrayed my wife.  I lied to her almost every night for four straight years. I did a quick estimate and figured that I lied at least 1,000 times to…

Is the Fight Against Porn Only Religious?

Due to our sexualized culture, it’s easy to think that arguments for healthy intimacy and against pornography are only made by religious organizations. For instance, when talking about the sex addiction movement, psychologist Dr. David…

Using Covenant Eyes Transformed My Life (Scholarship Essay)

There are only a few weeks left to apply for a Covenant Eyes scholarship! Each year we award thousands of scholarship dollars to students who demonstrate integrity. Check out the application information and pass it along to…

Covenant Eyes Helps Me Live Out My Values (Scholarship Essay)

Covenant Eyes awards thousands of scholarship dollars each year to students who demonstrate integrity. This year, we’re doing it again! Check out the application information and pass it along to a student you know or apply for the scholarship today. Applications…

Covenant Eyes’ Patrick Smith Remembered

It is with deep sadness that we announce the passing of one of our Covenant Eyes family members. Patrick Smith died in an auto accident Thursday, March 7, near Owosso, Michigan. He is survived by…

Strengthening Your Relationships as a Defense Against Porn

“Love one another with brotherly affection. Outdo one another in showing honor.” —Romans 12:10 As men, we have a unique tendency to have shallow relationships. Often, this results from poor relationship management and the inability…

Porn Should Not Be an Easy Punchline

I love science fiction. Modern science fiction writers and shows have a way of holding a mirror to society to reflect areas of concern. But the seriousness of pornography has seemed to elude this genre,…

How Boundaries Saved Our Marriage (Part 3)

In Part One and Part Two of this series on boundaries and marriage, we’ve told you about our messy journey to recovery. Although 15 years ago we almost lost our marriage to pornography addiction, this…

4 Reasons Shame Cripples Spouses of Addicts (and How to Overcome It)

“My husband is the sex addict; why should I feel shame?” For most healthy outsiders, the logical answer is, “You shouldn’t.” But for most spouses of sex addicts, the feeling of shame clings to us…