I found out about my husband’s battle with sexual temptation in June 2005, when I found images he had been looking at on our Internet history. It broke my heart and shattered my world. I will never forget the physical pain in my heart, and the emotional torture of those first few days, [...]
Sin is deadly, and unrepentant sin will kill a marriage. Regardless of the sin, whether “big” or “small” (from a human point of view), a spouse’s refusal to repent marks the beginning of the end of the marriage. However, there is hope. Like a cancer, if detected, identified, and treated, the marriage can become stronger [...]
Adding Injustice to Injury
Sex scandals and car accidents have much in common—injured parties, public spectacle, and charges hurled every which way amidst an abrupt, life changing tragedy. They both attract and repel us as we drive by, shaking our disapproving heads even as we crane our necks to see more. It’s been, in fact, [...]
A woman recently asked a challenging question in response to my article, “My Husband Is Having an Affair with Pornography, What Should I Do?”—in which I counsel a tough-love approach to sin. She asked, “What would you do if you have basically been this route before and the spouse did not follow up or follow [...]
Covenant Eyes Radio – Episode 51
The following is part of a conversation I had with Joe Dallas, program director of Genesis Counseling. Joe speaks candidly about his experience counseling husbands who have given into the porn trap. He offers strong words of advice for the Christian man who wants to regain his wife’s trust.
Joe also [...]
Nearly two years ago I heard about the Somebody’s Daughter project, a CD born out of the struggle of porn addiction. Soon after a companion DVD project was released featuring candid interviews with men and women who had been impacted by pornography.
John and Shelli Mandeville were a part of that project, sharing of their personal [...]
Next week, God willing, I’ll have the privilege of meeting with some of the leading minds in North America on the issue of pornography addiction. It was exciting to watch as this little convergence of people fell into place. We’re delighted to have the opportunity to get to know each other more and pick each [...]
Covenant Eyes Radio – Episode 50
Today’s interview is part of a recent conversation I had with Chad and Sarah Markley. Four years into their marriage, Sarah began an affair with another man. This went on for three years until the truth finally came out.
Determined to preserve their marriage, Chad and Sarah made drastic changes to [...]
The Family Research Counsel recently released their report: “The Effects of Pornography on Individuals, Marriage, Family and Community.” This report was compiled by Patrick F. Fagan, Ph.D., and is full of information about the effects of pornography on children, adolescents, men, women, and society.
If you are looking for a good place to start doing research [...]
Repeatedly viewing pornography can have a discernible effect on sex drive. When we train our minds on virtual sexuality, it is easy to lose interest in the real thing with our wives.
Research shows this time and time again:
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