Sex and Politics: Australia’s New Political Party takes on the Mandatory Internet Filter

On November 20, adult industry spokespersons launched a new political party: The Australian Sex Party.

Here’s one of the party’s promotional videos:

Tired of “hypocrites” and “wowsers” (an Australian slang term for an obtrusively puritanical person)? The Sex Party hopes to save their nation from such people. The woman you see in this video is the party’s convenor, Fiona Patten, the head of the Eros Association, the national adult retail and entertainment lobby group.

What has triggered this new party line? Patten says the trigger has been the Australian government’s decision to place a mandatory filter on the Internet. Read more…

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Breaking the Cycle of Porn Addiction

I recently heard a talk by Phil Monroe, a Christian Psychologist and biblical counselor who directs the Master’s counseling program at Biblical Seminary in suburban Philadelphia.

He describes the cycle of addiction that any addict goes through. As someone who has really struggled with porn addiction in the past, I completely resonate with what he says.

The Cycle

Here’s his diagram of the cycle. Simply recognizing this cycle can be a huge help in overcoming our sin:

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Teen Pregnancy Linked to Sex on TV

(This was a post I submitted on the blog Forced Exile.)

Does watching sex on TV predict teen pregnancy? This was the question the nonpartisan, nonprofit research organization, the RAND Corporation, asked back in 2001. Their findings were released about a month ago. What were they?

Teens who were exposed to high levels of television sexual content were twice as likely to experience a pregnancy compared with those with lower levels of exposure.

To many this is no news flash. Most people understand that the media influences sexual beliefs and behaviors. But this study was the first of its kind, demonstrating a prospective link between exposure to sexual content on television and the experience of a teen pregnancy. Read more…

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FAQ Friday: “Does Covenant Eyes Monitor and Record Private Information?”

Covenant Eyes accountability software is often mistaken for keystroke logging (often called “keylogging”) software. This sort of program intercepts all the keystrokes you’ve made on your computer, including sensitive information such as login names, passwords, and credit card numbers.

Covenant Eyes does not do any sort of keylogging. Covenant Eyes only monitors the URL in the address bar of your Web browser. We do not monitor or record any private information. Read more…

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Book Review: Death by Love

(The following is a guest post from a friend and book-lover who chooses to remain anonymous.)

Pastor Mark Driscoll’s book, Death by Love, is an exposition of the work of Christ on the cross and its relevancy to the often complex and painful situations of life. Death by Love is composed of 12 letters from Pastor Driscoll to different people he counseled about real-life situations. Each letter is prefaced by a short introduction, explaining the recipient’s background to book readers.

Driscoll, along with his co-author, Gerry Breshears, writes, “Our approach is an effort to show that there is no such thing as Christian community or Christian ministry apart from a rigorous theology of the cross that is practically applied to the lives of real people” (13). Read more…

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Wall Street Turns to Sex to Cope

A recent article from Telegraph.co.uk reported about the high number of Wall Street bankers who are coping with economic stresses by turning to sex addiction.

For example, Jonathan Alpert, a Manhattan psychotherapist reports that he has seen a threefold increase in the number of Wall Street workers seeking help for their sex addiction in the last six months. Jodi Conway, a sex addiction specialist in New Jersey, also reports about an increase of sexually related coping mechanisms among bankers such as Wall Street financiers who have been caught looking at pornography on their work laptops.

Pornography is, for many, a coping mechanism. “Escape” is the key word here. Like drugs, pornography offers people an escape from reality, a fantasy world of retreat. Often just identifying what we are trying to escape from can be the way we get to the root of our addiction. Read more…

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When Pastors Look at Porn . . .

People are watching more porn now than ever before . . . even pastors and ministers. How are denominations and church organizations dealing with this issue?

The Assemblies of God actually has a formal list of guidelines in place for helping ministers who have a “moral failure involving pornography.” I commend AOG for putting careful thought into these guidelines. (These guidelines were published in the Fall 2005 issue of Enrichment Journal.) Read more…

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Pastors and Porn: A Letter to Assemblies of God Ministers

The following is a letter written by Tom Trask, former superintendent of the Assemblies of God. After graduating from North Central Bible College, Minneapolis, MN, Trask served 25 years as a pastor and was superintendent of the Michigan district and general treasurer of the Assemblies of God before being elected in 1993 as the superintendent. He resigned from his position in 2007.

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Nearly half of ministers today admit to some form of inappropriate sexual addiction or behavior. How can you protect yourself from these temptations? Read more…

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Our 300th Post

Today we are publishing our 300th post on Breaking Free. This blog has been around for about a year now, and its been a wonderful learning experience for us. We’ve been able to interact with hundreds of people and learn about an array of topics. We hope you’ve enjoyed our articles.

Below is a list of our top 10 most-viewed posts recently:

10. Not just a Man’s Problem - Women and Porn Addiction - Who says women don’t struggle with Internet pornography?

9. FAQ Friday: Why doesn’t Covenant Eyes have Accountability Software for the iPhone? - This has probably been one of the questions we receive more than any other.

8. Six Reasons Why Guys Like Porn (and how to Break Free) - My thoughts on Proverbs 7 and how incredibly relevant it is to the temptations guys face online.

7. More on Porn Nation Part 1 and Part 2 - Some quotes from how university students are reacting to Michael Leahy’s controversial and widely-heard presentation, “Porn Nation.”

6. Husbands who Watch Porn - What are Their Wives Saying? - A candid look at why some women hate it when their husbands watch porn and why it is bad for any marriage.

5. Behind the Scenes of the New Movie: Fireproof - This movie has made huge splashes in the box office.

4. Porn and Pong: Sex in Video Games - A look at the history of sexual imagery and stories in video games and how it is impacting culture now.

3. Ex-Porn Star Tells the Truth about the Porn Industry - A guest post by Shelley Lubben, a former adult film actress and her thoughts on the industry.

2. Husbands who Watch Porn - Wives are Asking, “What’s Wrong with Me?” - Many women feel they can’t measure up to porn-star standards. Hear why your husband’s compulsive porn use really isn’t about you.

And our #1 most-viewed post has been . . .

1. Pastor Confesses to 16-Year Porn Addiction - This is the sad story of Michael Guglielmucci, an Australian pastor who recently confessed to faking a bout with cancer to cover up his porn addiction.

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FAQ Friday: “Why is this Score for a MySpace Page on My Report so high?”

Quick Answer: Our rating of MySpace pages vary widely. Our software’s scoring system examines each and every Web page from MySpace, Facebook, and other social networking sites. Each page is rated by keywords. This means some pages will be flagged with a higher score than others. Read more…

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