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Why I’m Beautiful Enough for My Spouse
Who hasn’t struggled with self-image? Male or female; thin or overweight; athletic…
Who hasn’t struggled with self-image? Male or female; thin or overweight; athletic or devoted couch potato. Most of us have had doubts about our own attractiveness. This doubt can be exponentially intensified when we have…
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Yes, You Must Confess Your Porn Problem to Your Wife
It takes courage to admit that you’re addicted to porn. Letting your…
It takes courage to admit that you’re addicted to porn. Letting your secret out to a friend is a crucial ingredient to freedom, but it is not enough. What now? Are going to tell me…
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To the Wife of a Porn Addict: Letting Go of Anger
I have had so many various emotions after discovering my husband was…
I have had so many various emotions after discovering my husband was addicted to pornography three years ago. I had times of sadness and depression that would last for days. I was often confused and…
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His Porn Will Change You: Should I Hold Him Accountable?
Being the spouse of a reformed (or struggling) porn addict is more…
Being the spouse of a reformed (or struggling) porn addict is more complex emotionally than many of us realize at first. Even when your husband is trying to pursue purity and both of you are…
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Delight Your Marriage: Interview with Belah Rose
Episode 151 [powerpress] Pornography is terrible sexual education, causing both deep insecurities…
Episode 151 [powerpress] Pornography is terrible sexual education, causing both deep insecurities and impossible expectations. When couples find they just don’t “click” in the bedroom—often caused by these hidden insecurities and expectations—where can they go…
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So Does That Make Me an Adulterer?
“But I say unto you, that whosoever looketh on a woman to…
“But I say unto you, that whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.” – Matthew 5:28 For over 28 years I’ve heard the question from…
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Porn In Your Dating Relationship: How to Find Healing Through Transparency
Episode 142 [powerpress] When you’re in a serious dating relationship or engaged,…
Episode 142 [powerpress] When you’re in a serious dating relationship or engaged, what should you do when you discover your boyfriend or fiancé watches porn habitually? While many relationship counselors advise transparency and honest conversation around…
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4 Kinds of Porn Users and 2 Ways Spouses Shouldn’t React
Every day on our blog, women post comments telling their stories and asking…
Every day on our blog, women post comments telling their stories and asking for help because their husbands use pornography. As I answer the comments, I’m noticing some common themes. I’d like to share what I’m…
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Marriage Restored: Reuniting with My Porn-Addict Husband after a 7-Year Separation
I grew up in an abusive, legalistic Christian home and “ran away”…
I grew up in an abusive, legalistic Christian home and “ran away” to college to escape my home life and all my problems. But I moved with me. I was still the insecure, frightened, manipulative, prideful,…
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Praying for My Porn Addict Husband: Serena’s Story
November 15, 2007, is a day that Serena Abdelaziz will never forget.…
November 15, 2007, is a day that Serena Abdelaziz will never forget. She had been living in a nightmare. Her husband Josh had sunken into pornography addiction, and his growing discontentment enticed him to look…