Articles by Guest Author

Want to write for the Covenant Eyes blog? Share the story of your journey to freedom from pornography. Let us know how you overcame porn or how Covenant Eyes has made a difference in your life or the lives of those you love.

Finding Healing Through the Betrayal Trauma Model

This article is written from the perspective of men struggling sexually and women in the Betrayal Trauma position. This can occur in both directions where the wife struggles and her husband is experiencing Betrayal Trauma. …

10 Essential Questions to Ask Your Significant Other BEFORE You Get Engaged

When it comes time to move your relationship from dating to engagement, you’re probably going to wonder about his porn use. He may be a wonderful person. He may love Jesus to distraction. He may…

My Flesh Is Weak, but My Faith Is Strong (Scholarship Essay)

The essay below was written by one of our 2019 Covenant Eyes scholarship winners: In 2-3 paragraphs, please explain how you use Covenant Eyes, and how it has impacted your life. Pornography entered my life…

What Kind of Beauty Are You Consuming?

Billions upon billions of people watch pornography. One of the largest adult-content websites in the world boasted 33.5 billion visits in 2018. From their year-end records, they state so much pornographic content has been uploaded…

The Danger of Just Watching and the Power of Being Seen

Something happened to me when I started watching porn. I didn’t notice the change right away, but my wife could sense that something odd was going on.  There was an unfamiliar look in my eyes,…

Your Child and Porn: The Importance of Emotional Intelligence

Emotional intelligence: it’s a buzz phrase right now. You may have heard it a number of places: blogs, talk shows, the news, or documentaries. But this evasive phrase is more than just a fad; it…

4 Keys to Actually Quitting Porn in the New Year

This post has been updated as of December 2020. So, here we are starting a new year, and many are shouting from the rooftops… “NO MORE PORN!” That’s right, you’re done. This is the year…

Covenant Eyes Is Getting a New Look

It is an amazing time to be in the Covenant Eyes family. Earlier this year, we redesigned our accountability service to identify and report pornography at the screen level. We also launched our very successful…

4 Things a Grandma and a Video Game Taught Me About Porn

So there I was, standing next to a grandma I barely knew with hardcore porn playing on the big screen. I never imagined my day was going to end up like this! I was a…
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