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Understanding the 5 Mentalities of a Porn “Addict”

While many of my books and booklets have a focus upon substance abuse issues, a struggle with any “addictive” pleasure of sin is a war within one’s heart desires. Anything pleasurable on this earth can…

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Little Boys in Men’s Bodies: What masculinity is and is not

Howdy Partner! Tell me what guy doesn’t occasionally belt this song in an off-pitched squeal in the shower, in his car, or in his own head at the grocery store. Here is a classic example…

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My Un-Saved Spouse Views Porn and Doesn’t Care

There are multiple things to consider in response to a pornography-using, unrepentant husband. The ugly truth is that many marriages have at least one spouse who is involved with sexual sin through pornography. Numerous surveys…

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Tricky (but Needed) Conversations with My Son About Porn

When my son was 12 years old I came home one day to find the phrase “sexy nude girls” typed in to our family computer search engine. I wasn’t shocked or even disappointed. I knew…

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Protect Your Group’s Integrity: Why All Members of Your Group Should Use Covenant Eyes

In business, there are some very common aphorisms such as “People respect what you inspect.” In the New York Times best seller In Search of Excellence, Tom Peters and Robert Waterman proposed a method commonly referred to as…

Overcoming Porn: Internet Accountability is a Grace from God

The gospel is good news because it reveals the grace of God. Jesus died on a cross and rose from the dead to rescue you from the coming wrath. You will not be condemned in…

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If Your Child is Looking at Porn: Give Them Grace

The darkness of the room was only broken by the glow of the screen. The darkness in his heart wasn’t—couldn’t—be broken by anything. The 12-year-old boy felt hopeless as he sat in front of the…

Fostering Christ-Centered Vulnerability in Your Church About Pornography

Vulnerability. It is one of those words, which the mere mention of can incite fear, anxiety and shame. For some, vulnerability is frightening because of secret gardens of sin, which have been tended and cultivated…

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Broken Trust: A Christian Response to Your Husband’s Porn Problem

“I don’t trust you anymore.” When you learned of your husband’s sexual immorality, you most likely experienced a flood of emotions. Wives who have learned of the pornography problem describe swinging from paralyzing shock to…