Articles by Sherry Allchin

Sherry Allchin has been in some form of ministry for nearly fifty years, first as the wife of a youth pastor, then as a mother of three and a Christian school teacher. She now lives in Charleston, SC working at the Low Country Biblical Counseling Center. She completed her M.A. in Biblical Counseling and has been counseling individuals and families for over twenty years. Their adult children and seven grandchildren serve the Lord across the country. Sherry is a member of the Association of Certified Biblical Counselors. Her passion is helping others to grow in their faith and to make life count for eternity!

5 Bad Habits That Kill Love in a Marriage

We live by habits–some good, but some bad! We have habitual behaviors, like driving the same path to work every day without even thinking about where we are going or turning next–we just…

3 Ways Your Porn Use Degrades Your Wife

When you value porn more than your wife, it destroys your marriage! She wants you to stop viewing it, yet you continue. She believes you don’t value her enough to quit. Sometimes she…

3 Reasons the Devil Didn’t Make You Do It

“Yet in all these things we are more than conquerors.” –Rom. 8:37 “The Devil made me do it!” We’ve all heard it, but why do I do what I do? Isn’t that the question…

How to Ruin Your Sex Life Before You’re Even Married!

Want a great sex life for 20–30–50 years of marriage Here are some principles that will affect the end results! After many years working with youth and counseling families, my husband and I have…

“Forgive Him? Never!” – 13 Excuses You’ll Use to Never Forgive Your Husband

Scenario: My husband committed adultery (or viewed pornography…again!) and has asked me to forgive him. I don’t think I can forgive him, but I know God has told us to forgive one another.…

When Porn Turns Your Husband into a Stranger

“I don’t even recognize my husband! The kind, gentle man I thought I married is gone and in his place is an angry, accusing man I don’t know. Porn turned him into a…

Responsibly Warning Your Children about Porn

“Help! I just caught my 10-year-old son looking at porn on his tablet he uses for games!” “Checking my child’s phone for something else, I came across the sexual pictures she was exchanging…

7 Steps After You Discover Your Husband Looks at Other Women Online

“In the last days perilous times will come: For men will be lovers of themselves…” (2 Timothy 3:1-5, NKJV) Pornography is readily available everywhere from billboards to sex flicks to…

What to Do if My Child Is Looking at Porn: 5 Critical Steps

“In the last days, perilous times will come…” (2 Timothy 3:1-5) Our children are growing up in a dangerous world, and as parents we cannot always protect them! Pornography is rampant and…