Betrayal Trauma: The Side of Porn Use No One Talks About

My new client had just sat down when I asked how I could help. She told me, “I recently discovered my husband has been viewing pornography behind my back. I found out he has been doing this for most of our marriage.” I gently asked, “How is that influencing you?” She responded, “I can’t sleep, I can hardly eat, and I can’t think about anything else. I think I am going crazy.” “What you are experiencing is normal. You aren’t going crazy,” I said. “What you are experiencing is trauma related to discovering your partner’s use of pornography.” After conducting…