An Army of One is so American. Unfortunately it is so un-Christian. And even sadder, I have seen this mindset take a stranglehold on many Christian people who populate today’s local church. And the worst of all are my personal temptations and struggles to live out my sinful tendencies toward self-sufficiency and independence in the context of my family and friends. My wife has been at the lowest in hope toward God and faith for the future when I’m at the height of independence and self-sufficient stubbornness. The first five years of our marriage was lived out that way and … Continue reading →
Diony George is a native Alaskan, a full-time wife and a mother of seven. Her deep faith in God and desire to help others led her to share her compelling and moving story. She says, “My main reason for writing the book is to help someone else not go through what I did. Torn Apart was hard to write . . . it’s very personal, it’s very emotional. But I believe: if pornography isn’t brought out in the light . . . how are people going to realize how serious it is and how it is affecting lives? “I’m very … Continue reading →
If you are the wife of a (hopefully recovering) pornography addict, I have a heart-felt message I want to share with you. But first, I want you to pray that God would open your heart and mind in such a way that you’d be able to fully receive it with the spirit in which it is intended, to be a blessing, not a burden . . . to encourage you and inspire you rather than require things from you that you’re simply not ready to give. My goal is to help you become a sexually confident wife again, in spite … Continue reading →
Back in March I wrote a post called “Husbands Who Watch Porn.” I was unprepared for the slew of comments on this post we received from women. Since then our category, “Wives of Porn Addicts,” has been our most viewed link on this blog. After some recent comments we have received, I am compelled now to write directly to the men, to the husbands who watch porn.
We have a lot of husbands who use our accountability software. They want to make sure that someone is holding them accountable for where they go online. Some of them have really struggled in the past with viewing pornography online, and they are doing all they can to protect their eyes and their hearts from lustful images. Some husbands have not struggled with Internet porn, so they use our software to make sure they never do. Should a man’s wife be one of his accountability partners when it comes to Internet use? The Case For Spouse Accountability There are many good … Continue reading →