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Dan serves as the Director of Gateway to Freedom, a 3-day intensive for men, and also serves as a Sexual Integrity and Recovery Mentor. Gateway to Freedom is a ministry of Be Broken Ministries. Dan speaks nationally on Sexual Integrity Leadership team. Prior to his engagement in ministry, Dan spent 32 years in public safety. He & his wife Julie have been married for 34 years and live in Orlando, Florida.

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Why Medicating Shame’s Pain with Porn Never Works

Shame is as old as Adam and Eve…well, almost. Genesis 2:24-25 says, “Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.  And the…

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3 Recovery Killers That Could Be Keeping You from Freedom

Is Recovery from Porn Possible? “The thief comes to steal, kill and destroy” (John 10:10a). It should be no surprise then that these three recovery killers we’ll talk about come straight from the father of…

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3 Steps to Start Rebuilding Trust and Respect in Your Marriage

Marriages Need Trust and Respect Trust and respect are the concrete and re-bar of a strong marital foundation. If one or the other is missing, the marriage structure is weakened and subject to damage. When…

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Back to the Basics: 5 Steps to Overcome Porn

Most people struggle to find effective methods for overcoming porn in their lives. These five steps have proven to be highly effective when implemented as designed. The greatest variable in this process is you. The process…

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5 Messages Porn-Using Singles Need to Hear 

“I’m single, so what’s the big deal with watching porn?” A message that says it’s more acceptable for a single person to use porn than someone in a relationship sugar coats the same lie with…

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I Feel So Alone: Why You Need Community While Battling Addiction

I’d never felt so alone as the day my wife caught me in a nearly two-year-long online relationship and thirty-year tryst with pornography. The mess I found myself in was unlike anything I’d ever experienced.…

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Pastors, Wives in Your Church Want You to Talk About This

Sin in your church? What? Hope I didn’t burst your bubble. The church is filled with imperfect people who commit sin. I’ve searched for a perfect church and am yet to find one. Besides, if…

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Pornography and Christ Don’t Mix: Here’s Why

How does porn fit into a Christian’s life? The short answer to this question is that they do not blend together. Porn is utter darkness and Jesus Christ is pure light. They are completely contrary.…

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9 Foundational Scriptures to Help Rebuild Your Marriage

The world around us is not just wandering, but running, away from the biblical foundational truths concerning marriage and Who created it. So it would then follow that worldly solutions won’t fix the problem. Problems cannot…