7 thoughts on “Trafficked into Porn

  1. There are two types of people in this world. Those who live in a make believe world and those who live in the real world. Many Christians live in some made up world where women have no choices. They are always the victim of some man. The reality is they all had choices. I was once the bleeding heart Christian. I tried to save many girls from harm. Where did it get me? It devastated my life. We never talk about the years a woman does porn because she wanted to or how she loved spending the money or the countless good guys she left in misery as she pursued fame and fortune. Guys who tried to help her. Guys who cared for her. Let’s go interview those guys. Let’s take a camera and watch her bypass great guys for bad guys. In the end, she had the choice. I am done feeling sorry for women. That is real talk too. I notice most comments on this site never deal with reality. I am sorry. This is just how I feel. As I said, I was once the bleeding heart Christian. What I have found about women on this planet is they all love money and all use sex to get what they want. All of them. On every level of society. A man is just better off embracing that. All this talk of love is pure nonsense. Most Christians live in a dream world. Hell, most of America does. It is kind of like 9/11. There are mountains of evidence that show we did it to ourselves. Yet, America just denies so that it can maintain the illusion of things. Building 7 is the best proof of this. We do the same with porn. Just deny the woman’s role and choice in it. But I do wonder if those women ever look back on their lives and ever consider the men they hurt along the way. I doubt it. I have yet to see one woman ever write an article talking about how she was sorry for those she hurt in the pursuit of her fame and fortune and via how she used sex. Not one.

    • To the person who made the comment above”I was once a bleeding heart Christian.” I cannot imagine that you had a true faith. Why would anyone who was in the depths of sin and been rescued by a loving God through Christ’s self-less act of forgiveness on the cross ever succumb to the thoughts you write of? I can’t imagine anyone who had been so rescued to have the defeated mindset as this. You may have been in a church, you may have tried to help women out, you may have even been behind the pulpit and spoke of your faith. But to truly have been snatched up from the pit and been washed white as snow and then to say the things your saying…I have my doubts. You may have had religion, but not the freedom that comes when you get to live free of the law of sin and death. Your words sound like a person entrenched in sinful thinking. The Holy Spirit is encouraging and hopeful and brings life. The enemy’s words bring discouragement and death. I think it’s pretty obvious who is behind the words you write.

    • It is true, you can lead a horse to water but you can not make it drink. Miraculously, the mistakes we make are actually tremendous learning opportunities.
      You are correct, people are programmed to make mistakes. What I mean is, our culture teaches us from a very young age, that if we make a mistake we are a misfit, dimwit and stupid. Or even worse that we are “BAD” not that the mistake was bad, but we are bad for making the mistake.

      That is a weight that motivates you in a couple of directions. We can gravitate to the stigma of a dimwit or failure or we cover it up and hid the pain and shame we feel. I am describing some very powerful emotions that can lead us to hopelessness, to a point of no return.
      Perhaps that is the “Why” answer to your observation, of how these particular women enjoyed their so called energy that they gave to those who absorbed there erotic, pornographic fantasy, these false illusions of intimate connections with love.
      I allow everyone the benefit of the doubt, because we are fallible, mistake making humans. I find troubling that you “Lump” every women on planet earth as a whore mongering creature. Please reconsider the overreaching prospective. I am sensing you have felt the sting of rejection and in your pain, you are attacking women. I hope you can once again see with eyes of acceptance that we all have had our hearts broken and confidence shattered. Yes, rejection, isolation, failure, lies and broken trust is all part of acceptance, inclusion, accomplishment, fidelity, we can not know what is sweet without knowing the bitter. The true awakening to forgiveness frees ourselves from the our own judgements.

    • I am a woman and I agree that some but not all love money and use sex to get what they want. You are right that some Christians are living in a make belief world thinking that all people will turn to Christ if given the opportunity and love. I am not denying the power of the Holy Spirit but Jesus did say that some would not accept Him. Is our Lord wrong? Of course not because that’s blasphemy!!
      He has given us a free will and at the end some will and have exercised their free will to their detriment. We don’t need to try to figure out the reason it’s just is. It’s hard emotionally to accept that. To those out there thinking that they can save everyone, a reminder that our Lord Jesus did not do that either. Not that Ge is not able but we are sinful.

    • sorry but even though we choose to look at it THERE IS A CHOICE TO GET OF RID IN THE FIRST PLACE IF ALL THE WEBSITES, SHOPS, DVDS TV PROGRAMMES WERE GONE THEN YES we could still make more but do we really want to I DO NOT BRITISH I MEAN ENGLISH I MEAN SOUTHAMPTON GIRL who yes looked is fed up of all this bickering between people saying its mans fault or womens choice why don’t we all unite against sin and eliminate … for our younger cousins, wives, mums, dads, prime ministers, south African animals, everyone could be free are free, I am free I have a vision of porn being eliminated not right word being thrown into all the seas in the world and on line porn well that can be given a virus so it does not work not by me I respect myself a girl who loves JESUS, BEING A GIRL BEING SINGLE NOT MARRIED CONTENT WITH GOD. and may be I would like to suggest is the point of healing of getting out of this and into love life, JOY…. Jesus died for me and I am chasing Jesus now..

  2. Hi “Two Types Of People”

    Some strong comments. You sound a great deal like the fella who’s been bit by a bad marriage “that’s it, I’m never getting married again, I’m done with women.” Yeah, I know close people to me that have said that only to be once again married and happy. It really comes out in your comments, you reached out to help a woman and it bit you. So now all women are evil, come now, that really is not the case…you’re just venting off steam, which is what we do when we’re upset.

    I have to say that I have had the same question before on why women choose destructive men when there are better men out there. But, I guess this could be turned around on me…why did I choose to take part in a habit that will ultimately destroy all I hold dear. I’m not a counselor, but something must be missing, an emptiness…I’m not sure. I hate that I started this habit years ago, but the seeds were laid when I stumbled upon my father’s pornography when I was a young teenager. It’s hard to judge the hearts of all the women in porn. Sure there are some that think they are living the high life, but there’s a payday coming (Revelation 21:8). There is a bait-n-switch I’m sure to get girls / women into porn, but money is a driving force….just like the in drugs. It’s hard for me to think that you really think all women are of the sort you speak of, you’re just blowing off steam….understandable.

    Now, before you blast all the women, you need to look at your motives on helping the woman (women) you are referring. Was you involvement from genuine Christian (Bible based) concern, or selfish motivation(s)? This is why men should help men and women should help women when dealing on a one-on-one personal level. There are so many dangers of taking the relationship farther than it should go. We (Christians) are not to unequally yoke ourselves with unbelievers ( II Corinthians 6:14). It looks that if they devastated your life, the relationship seemed to have gone more than that of a Christian witness of the gospel (?), I have never known my life to be ruined over just giving the gospel to a lost soul. If this is not the case, forgive me. Remember also that there are men that are also guilty of the things you say about women. The child support system is full of these types of cases….not all but “many”.

    One last thought…..Just today I was checking the mail at the local Post Office. I saw an elderly man inside, I said hello and went to my box to get the mail. He made short talk (joking) about garbage mail and I agreed, he then picked up a Christian tract that someone had laid on the counter, showed me the tract by holding it up and stated that he used to be a chaplain (I wont say where, he did tell me) and then proceeded to tear up the tract right in front of me and threw it in the trash. He stated that he destroys any he sees and that he thinks someone is probably trying to save the world. I was absolutely taken back by what he did and said…not wanting to be confrontational, I just let him leave wondering why he was so against what he once evidentially witnessed at one time. You stated that you used to be a (bleeding heart) Christian, would you turn your heart from the God of eternity because of someone who used your kindness as a weakness? You’re doing exactly what the devil wants….he’s out to steal, kill and destroy (John 10:10) (I Timothy 4:1). It is not by mere coincidence you stumbled upon this, maybe The Holy Spirit is trying to comfort you. I’ve been bit trying to help people in the past….The Lord knew my heart and thus I will be rewarded for that, not how many that sign on the dotted line.

  3. Hey people. What has been said is totally true. When the Holy Spirit causes you to do something He will give you just enough grace to do. And not forgeting that it is not you who convicts people(women) of their short comings…thats completely the work of the Holy Spirit

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