About April Mabrey

April Mabrey

April Mabrey has been married to Darren for over 20 years. They live in Dallas, Texas, with their twin girls, Luci and Sydni. April is a software engineer and loves to karaoke, Zumba, and eat sushi. Darren is the Men’s Director at their church and has a passion for sharing his story of freedom from shame through his ministry Sit in the Chair. Read April’s chapter in our e-book, Hope After Porn.

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Porn and Your Husband

Did you catch your husband watching porn? Learn the answers to common questions, tips to productive conversations, steps to setting boundaries, and how to determine the next steps for your marriage.

3 thoughts on “Help! My “Christian” Husband Secretly Watches Porn

  1. My dear sister,
    This is truly tortuous.
    My personal experience says ask for STD checks and ensure you have no unpleasant gifts from your husband. Secondly, sometimes the answer to the prayers for your marriage is to leave.
    Lastly, this is not about you or anything you have to learn. You may have to forgive and let go but I don’t believe God put you in this situation to learn something. You wandered into something inadvertently believing the best in someone. They lied.
    God will however turn all things to good. Seek some trauma counselling and do not consider marriage counselling while he is still hiding things from you.

    • Jo, I think you are beyond wrong. Did you not read the article? Do you not trust God to take control of the sin and lies in this woman’s life? I think you are a fool to discourage her from marriage counseling. Her husband seems to be struggling, and seems to want to stop. Why else would he confess his discretions to her? I say let God glorify himself in this relationship. Marriage was not designed to make us happy, but to make us holy.

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