- Thursday, April 10th, 2008
- Written By Lynn McClurg
- Categories: General, Pornography Addiction, Wives of Porn Addicts Back to Blog Home
Why Covenant Eyes is Here
A comment posted from a distressed wife on our blog dated March 11, 2008, titled “Husbands Who Watch Porn – What Are Their Wives Saying?” really struck my heart as I read the post. I was extremely saddened and grieved for her, her family, and her addicted husband as she described the terrible effects on their relationship and family from his pornography addiction. It is extremely sobering to realize that we all have the ability to fall to temptation and with repeated abuse become addicted. Recognizing our weaknesses and doing something to protect ourselves is absolutely necessary. It is vitally important that we honestly communicate to those closest to us our struggles and not keep them to ourselves. This brings me to why we have sacrificed and struggled to develop a strong monitoring software program that truly holds people accountable for what they do while on the Internet.
We exist to change people’s lives by providing a service that enables people of all ages to use the Internet responsibly and in a God honoring way. Everything we do is about this. Accountability is connected with and dependent upon a commitment to our relationships. That commitment should include honesty, transparency, and humility. If the husband in the post I mentioned had been monitored and held accountable for his Internet use, would the outcome be different? How much pain and suffering could have been avoided? Our hundreds of testimonials tell us that the program is doing just that . . . helping people avoid pornography’s damaging effects and changing people’s lives as they use the Internet safely and with accountability to others. (Last year we released a Filter that goes well with our monitoring program.)
What can you do? No matter your current station in life join us in our passion in helping spread the news of Internet pornography danger and it’s damaging effects to everyone in your sphere of life, and even outside your sphere. Become an army of men and women battling pornography’s destruction and help others avoid the grief, pain, and sorrow that this addiction brings. We exist to serve you.
Please let me know any comments, ideas, or suggestions you have.
Why do husbands put the feeling of guilt on the wives when they have been caught? Is it the wifes fault? Is there something the wives are not doing for or to the husband to keep him away from porn sites? I can’t possibly get any more depressed than I already am. He is even talking about the girls he visits on the porn sites. Help.